Wednesday, December 5, 2012

My Ex Girlfriend is Avoiding Me and I Want Her Back So Much

You’d hoped that by now you would have been able to find a way to make your ex girlfriend want to be back together with you again,  but you just seem to get the cold shoulder from her.  It seems like your ex girlfriend is avoiding you and that hurts,  because you want her back so much.  What should you do if you have been chasing after your ex girlfriend because you want her back,  but she just seems to be avoiding you?

Answer:  Stop chasing after her for now.  In fact,  chasing after her is not what you want to do at all.  There is a big difference between pursuing your ex girlfriend and chasing after her.  When you are chasing after her,  it is to be expected that she is going to end up avoiding you.  It’s a classic case of push/pull.  The more you push,  the more she is going to pull away from you.

If you don’t want that to happen,  you have to be willing to stop chasing after her for a while.  Otherwise,  you are probably going to end up pushing her away for good and you won’t be complaining about her avoiding you… you’ll be complaining about how she is with another guy.  

I doubt that you want that to happen.  You have to have a better method for trying to win her back than to chase after her.  That is a desperation move and being desperate is not an attractive quality.

Have a life.

Keep busy.

Make her want to know what’s up with you because you haven’t been giving her any attention.

And if you really want to be able to win her back,  go here.

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