Thursday, November 1, 2012

Should You Be on the Rebound if She Is?

What if you know that your ex girlfriend is dating again,  should that be a little hint that you should do the same? 

People will definitely have varying opinions on this, here is mine…

Yes… you should.

Why?

For two reasons: 

1)  It’s healthy to be able to move on after a break up

2)  You need to show your ex girlfriend that you are not going to be around for long.

If she thinks that you are always going to be around,  what’s going to stop her from seeing what else is out there knowing that she can always go back to you if things don’t work out with someone else?

You don’t want to be her back up option,  do you?

You don’t have to be.

Rebounding is healthy as long as you don’t make the mistake of diving head first into a committed relationship too soon.

Dating casually is something that can be fun,  can be helpful if you want to know what you are really looking for in a relationship,  and it can take your mind off of your ex girlfriend for a little while.

Should you rebound even if you want her back?

If she is,  you might as well.

Just don’t settle down with the first woman who comes along after the break up.

That usually ends up being a HUGE mistake.