Monday, November 5, 2012

Is She Playing Head Games Or Are You Playing Them With Yourself?

You think that she is playing games with you.  She flirts with you a bit and then she seems to pull back at the last second.  She laughs at your jokes and then she goes cold in an instant.

You are sitting on the edge of your seat because you still love her,  you still want her and you don’t really know what’s going on.

Take a step back for a moment.

Look at things from an outsider’s perspective if you can.

Do you still see her playing head games…

Or are You playing them with yourself?

I ask this because I deal with a lot of guys who want more than anything to get back with their ex girlfriend.  One of the most common scenarios that they will talk about,  is that they think their ex girlfriend is playing head games with them.

Sometimes it seems like they are onto something and they might be right,  but a LOT of the time it seems like they are just seeing what they want to see.

Don’t give yourself false hope if there is nothing to be hopeful about.

That said,  you also don’t want to miss out on an opportunity to get her back if it is there.

See,  in a lot of those situations,  even if I wouldn’t really agree that she is necessarily playing head games,  I’d still say that the guy has a clear chance to win back his ex girlfriend.

However,  it hardly ever happens because the guy makes a few mistakes and ends up blowing that opportunity of getting what he really wants.

YOU don’t want to blow it man.

Don’t get caught up in the idea that she is playing head games with you because the moment you get caught up in that,  is the moment you are going to end up missing a clear opportunity to win her back.

Want to know what you SHOULD be doing?